How to navigate online dating sites and find love in mid-life and beyond
Send a message
Don’t just ‘like’ a profile — stand out with a message! Keep it respectful and write something personalised to show you’ve paid attention to their profile. Save your flirting for real life, though — texts can be misinterpreted so, until you get to know someone better, go easy on the charm over messages.
Set boundaries
Make your intentions clear from the outset. Be communicative — so both parties know they’re on the same page about a budding relationship.
Stay safe
If you’re meeting someone from the internet for the first time, be sure to meet them in a public place and let a friend know where you’re going and who you’re meeting. Coffee is the top-rated first date activity, with 29 per cent of over 50s listing this as an ideal first date.
Give up the ‘ghost’
Ghosting refers to the practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication. If you’re not feeling the spark with a match, let them know politely rather than leaving them stewing in the dark.
Don’t give up
People are picky — 86 per cent of over 50s say they’d rather be single than with someone who’s not the right fit. But remember, every ‘not a match’ gets you closer to a ‘catch’.
● Tips from Oak Tree Mobility.